more!!!! whaha

ok.. i know the previous post was more related to Christians looking for a life partner... so i've sort of drawn up a..... eh... diagram above. pardon the ugliness as i'm not as artistically inclinded as i think i am... haha.. ok.. i'll cut the crap short..

ok.. lest see.. we have three levels. the first level is the Chemistry Level.

it goes like this... guy meets girl.. girl sees guy.. a surge of electricity runs in their body and out from their eyes and WOOSH!!! both falls in love at first sight.... ok... i think u get what i mean.. this feeling can be short term.. otherwise known as infactuation.. so ya.. people are attract to the other party based on the outlook of the person or personality. this is only skin deep. so at this level, this person can only be your PLAYMATE.

the next level is the Character Level.

ok... so you have known your playmate for quite some time.. and often spent time together doing all sorts of things.. from playing to even cooking... wadever the case, the time spent together gets longer.. and then... you realise his other qualities like honesty, discipline, responsibility...... and the list goes on... at this level, you are becoming aware of this person's character. its deeper than the first one... so this person can only be your PARTNER.

the last level is Core level.

at this stage, you would want to observe how your partner reacts to situations around them and what is happening around your partner. at this point of time, your partner upgrades to a SOULMATE.

so ya... that was also what i've learnt in the seminar... useful right? hehe.. okok.. but in any case, the bottom line is DON'T RUSH! TAKE TIME!! remember in my pervious post i mentioned that we have to enjoy the season of singlehood? why do u want to rush into a relationship when u know that the outcome would only bring bitterness? enjoy!!! haha... like me!!! haha.. ok la.. not really... i'm more of a pig lazing at home... watching an insect building a hive in my house!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH... WTF!!! serious!!! i'm scared but i some how find it interesting!!! haha...